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Welcome to the World: Our Homebirth Story

birth blog cnver brighterA Trip to the Farmers Market, a Nap, a Bath, & a Walk

Saturday morning began as any other morning, except that I was 11 days past my due date. I had only ever gone 5 and 6 days past my due date with the other babies, so this was uncharted territory.

We decided to go to the Farmer's market so we could get out of the house for a little bit. I had been having Braxton Hicks contractions with activity for days, so the slight contractions I was having that morning were nothing new. 

When the girls went down for naps in the afternoon, I decided to take a nap as well. This time, I continued to have some light contractions while laying down. This was new, so I figured something was starting to shift. When I woke up around 2, I sent messages to my sister (who was going to be hanging out with our kids), our doula, and the midwife to let them know that maybe something was finally happening. 
I called my parents to see if they would play with our big girls for the afternoon so I could relax. I took a bath while listening to a hypnobirthing meditation and continued to have light contractions, maybe every 10 minutes or so. 
After the bath, my husband Jared and I went for a walk around the neighborhood in the light rain. I continued to have contractions every 7-10 minutes, but they were nothing intense. I could walk and talk through them, so I figured we were still very early in the labor process. 
We picked up dinner and brought it over to my parents house. I didn't feel like eating, but sipped on a smoothie. Around 7 we headed for home. The plan was for my sister to come over to our house around 8. We set up air mattresses for both her and the doula so everyone could get some sleep, as I figured we'd be up in the middle of the night at some point once things picked up. 

Calling the Midwife

I called the midwife at 7:10 to check in and get her input on when would be a good time for her to come over. We decided that things still seemed a little early since I could still talk through contractions (but was starting to vocalize a little). She was going to finish up what she was doing and then drive over (30 minute drive) just to check in. Her assistant lives about 4 minutes from us, so she said if things were too early, she'd just go hang out there and drink coffee and wait close by for us to call. 

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Black Mamas Matter: What Maternal Health Outcomes Reveal About Racial Inequality

racial justice black mamas matterLooking at issues of racial inequality can be uncomfortable. Many people would like to believe that the world treats everyone in a fair manner. When evidence reveals that it doesn’t, we should be uncomfortable, because we shouldn’t be comfortable with injustice.

One would hope that the medical community - those there to care for your health - would be free from this inequality. Unfortunately, especially when it comes to maternal health outcomes that is simply not the case!

I understand that many things in this article may be hard to read. But if we want to truly understand these issues and make a difference, it is important to take an honest look at both where we are at as a nation and how we got there.  

In a way, I hope this article makes you uncomfortable... uncomfortable enough to respond with compassionate action! (And don’t worry, we won’t be focusing only on the problem, there will be some action points at the end of the article so that you can be part of the solution today.)

Even though it is a good thing for many of us to be in this uncomfortable discussion, I want to honor those who have been affected directly by these issues. Therefore I am issuing my first ever trigger warning.

**Trigger Warning - Racial inequality, negative maternal health outcomes, maternal mortality, medical cruelty, etc.**


The Current Truth

In the US, Black women are actually three to four times more likely than White women to die from pregnancy related complications (1). Their babies have twice the rate of preterm deliveries and low birth rates (2). It is important to note that research has found “this increased risk of pregnancy-related death among Black women is independent of age, parity, or education” (3). 

One study calculated the amount of patients with preeclampsia, eclampsia, abruptio placentae, placenta previa, and postpartum hemorrhage. It found that while the prevalence rates were the same, Black women were 2 to 3 times more likely to die from these issues then White women were (3).

In order to understand this tragedy, it is important to look at both our history as well as current factors.

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How Well-meaning Parents Interfere With a Baby's Development

a babys developmentMost new parents take great joy in their baby’s accomplishments. Each new milestone is marked with joy and excitement - baby’s first smile, first words, first steps. While it’s great to celebrate these achievements, it is important to allow your baby to develop at their own pace without interference. 

Often well-intentioned parents try to encourage their babies to reach these milestones before they are ready or put their babies in positions prematurely. This can interfere with the child’s natural development and is actually counterproductive to their learning. While some parents are competitive with their child’s development, most parents simply are not consciously aware of what they are doing.

Let’s take a look at a baby’s natural development and some of the ways we tend to undermine it!

Natural Development

Babies learn to move best by simply having the opportunity to move on their own. While they need plenty of time in mama’s lap (and daddy’s, grandma’s, grandpa’s, etc.), they also need plenty of time to explore movement in a safe environment on their own. You can still interact and be with them during these times, but they should have autonomy over their body. 

According to Lindsay Mumma DC, “Children need to get a sense of how their bodies function in a gravity environment. This helps them coordinate and activate muscles in the proper sequence to initiate complex movements.” We can not do this for the baby, it simply takes time! 

Babies will not learn how to do movements properly if we interfere in this process. Babies simply must learn these movements on their own to develop properly and learn to move in the most efficient manner.

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The Webster Technique

webster techniquePregnancy is an exciting time, but it can also be extremely stressful. Your body is changing, and your lifestyle and relationships are about to go through a major transition. If we are honest, at times it can tap into some deep fears and insecurities. It doesn’t help that many people like to tell expectant moms difficult birthing stories! 

But what if there was a way to prepare your body for birth? A technique developed specifically for the pregnant mom to prepare her for a safer and easier birth. That’s just what the Webster Technique was created to be. Let me tell you a little about the method, it’s the background, and my experience with it. Then I will make a very special announcement (in case you missed it on the Facebook live video).


What is the Webster Technique?

The Webster technique is a specific assessment and chiropractic adjustment developed for use with expectant moms throughout their pregnancy. It was designed to balance the structures in the pelvis and sacrum, in preparation for a safer and easier birth!

This technique was created by Dr. Larry Webster after he attended the birth of his granddaughter. Although he had used adjustments during the long difficult birth, he felt that a more specific approach of addressing subluxations throughout pregnancy would lead to easier births for both mom and baby.

Once developed this technique focused on the alignment of the pelvis, as well as relieving the tightness in the ligaments that support the uterus. 

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A Baby in the Car?! Piper's Birth Story

Welcome Piper May! Here is the FULL birth story for Piper! Some of the details may be a bit graphic, so if you don't want all of the details, just check out the picture and read the following sentence. She was born the car on the way to the hospital. If you do want all of the details, keep reading for the full story.Welcome Piper May

I started having regular contractions Sunday afternoon. They weren't very intense, and were every 10-12 minutes. We went out for dinner to celebrate my brother in law's birthday. I continued to have contractions through the meal, but I don't think anyone else could tell they were happening. When we got home, we went for a walk around the block. During each contraction, I had to slow down, but I could still talk through them and they weren't too intense. Around 8:00 pm, I went upstairs to put my older daughter to bed. We were laying in her bed chatting when I had a contraction and decided that they were too intense for mommy to have a normal bed time routine and that my husband needed to put her to bed. Thankfully, Jared decided to take her to my parents house just in case we had to go to the hospital during the middle of the night. When my he came home I told him to get some rest because I'd likely wake him up when I needed him for support. I started my night of contractions. 

At this point, I was having tightening about every 10 minutes. (I never actually timed them, so any timing I mention is a guess). They were too intense to sleep through. I had read the hypnobirthing book during my pregnancy and was using some of the deep breathing and meditation strategies discussed in this book during each tightening. I'd also been using a pregnancy meditation app called "expectful"  to help stay relaxed. I played several of these meditations during the first half of the night.  For the next several hours I tried to relax and simply breathe each time I felt the tightening start. 

Around 1:30 am I decided to take a bath. I remembered that when I was in labor with Harper, that both times I got into the tub (during the 43 hour labor), contractions pretty much stopped. I knew that getting into the tub would either cause everything to escalate (in which case I could wake my husband up and we'd leave for the hospital), or it would slow things down (which sounded like a wonderful break so I could get a little rest). The bath slowed the contractions (I had about 4 in the hour or so I was in the tub), and the intensity of the contractions was much more mild. I still felt like the contractions that I did have while in the tub were productive, and since I was in more of a vertical position, I felt like they were helping to move baby down. After an hour, I decided to get out of the tub. When I dried myself off, I noticed a gross slimy looking thing that I can only assume was my mucous plug. Seeing this actually put my mind at ease that things were progressing and that I should just keep doing what I was doing. 

I continued to have contractions in bed while lying on my side, breathing deeply, and meditating best I could during each contraction. At this point, I starting having to be more vocal and moan through most contractions (not loud enough to wake up Jared). After each contraction, I felt like I had to empty my bladder. I went back and forth from bed to toilet several more times, and it seemed to me like they were starting to come more frequently. Around 4:30 am I woke up Jared and told him it was getting more intense, and asked him to time some contractions, and think about calling the midwife. He timed a few and they were around 5 minutes apart. He called the midwife, and was told that we should wait just a little bit longer until they were closer to 4 or 4 and a half minutes apart. (Initially this was fine with me because around 4.5 minutes apart was when we went in with my older daughter, and I still labored for another 18 hours). 

My next contraction came on while still sitting on the toilet. It was intense. Gravity was in my favor. From this point on, things went crazy. Contractions suddenly went from every 5 minutes to one right on top of the next. Jared called the midwife back (less than 10 minutes after he initially spoke with her) to let her know that we were leaving. He grabbed bags and loaded the car as I had a few more intense contractions in whatever position I happened to be in when it hit (all 4s, standing, etc.). Thankfully, I told Jared to grab a few towels as we left the house. 

When we got to the car, I had him pop out the infant car seat from the base so I would recline as much as possible in the front passenger seat. He put a towel on my seat, and we started driving. As we approached the entrance ramp to I88, I had an intense contraction. I felt a lot of pressure down there, and so I placed my hand over my bottom, and felt a bulge. I said to Jared "Either I'm pooping, or there is a head coming." That contraction ended and he kept driving. I had a several minute break before the next contraction hit a few miles down the road.  I felt the same pressure sensation and bulging again. I said "I think I need to take my pants off" and by the time I could get them off, we could both see the entire head. He kept driving as I held the head between my legs with my right foot on the dash board, and my left knee near the center console. 

As soon as the next wave of contractions started, Piper slid out. I was trying not to push, but there was no stopping this baby. I pulled her up to my chest and wrapped her in the other towel. She started crying pretty quickly. What a relief. Any labor discomforts that I had were immediately gone. 

We decided to call 911. We found a safe place to pull over near the 355 southbound exit and waited for the ambulance to arrive.  The ambulance and lots of other emergency vehicles arrived soon. They brought a stretcher out and wanted me to get onto it. I got out of the car (yes I still had no pants on, and Piper was still attached to the placenta which hadn't been delivered yet through the umbilical cord). The ambulance drove us, with sirens blaring, to the nearest hospital (Good Samaritan). We had planned on delivering at Elmhurst Hospital, but the ambulance could only take us to the closest hospital. Jared followed closely behind the ambulance and met us inside. One of the ambulance drivers wanted me to put Piper into a car seat, I told him to let me hold her wrapped in the towel since she was still attached to the umbilical cord and I wanted to keep her warm and snuggled by me. 

They wheeled us up to labor and delivery and checked us out. Everyone seemed amazed at how well we were both doing. I had no pain, and felt like a million bucks compared with my first delivery. The doctor on call assessed me and I had no tears (I did have a second degree during Harper's long labor that ended with a forceps delivery). They let Jared cut the cord and had me deliver the placenta. The nurse said that normally they administer Pitocin (synthetic version of the naturally occurring hormone oxytocin), but I declined this. I knew that I could naturally stimulate my body to release more oxytocin by breast feeding, and so I opted to do that instead to avoid the use of synthetic hormones.

They checked Piper and told us that she was 20 inches long and weighed in at 7 pounds, 1 oz. 

So that was our adventure. Piper will have quite the story for the rest of her life, and I'm so glad that we are both doing well.  I am listed on her birth certificate as both the mom and the attending physician! 

What I did differently this time around

I have been asked by several people, what was different between this labor and my first (besides about 30+ hours, an epidural, and forceps). Between the two births, I learned about BIRTHFIT and it's 4 pillars (Mindset, Fitness, Nutrition, and Chiropractic), and decided that I needed to do some things differently.  

1) Mindset. Last time during labor, I over analyzed everything. I had an app to time every contraction. I got frustrated with myself when labor seemed to stop progressing. This time I prepared ahead of time by meditating during pregnancy. I learned between the two births that birth happens in more of a primal or parasympathetic state as opposed to sympathetic (fight or flight). Every time I pulled out my phone app to time a contraction or started to think too much about what was going on, my body immediately went to more of the fight or flight state keeping me from progressing. This time, I feel that really relaxing and breathing deeply throughout made a huge difference. I knew that if my body needed to take a break that it would, and this didn't mean that I was doing anything wrong. My body knew what it was doing, and I trusted it. 

2) Fitness. Last time, I took the typical advice during pregnancy that I was in a "frail state" and needed to be very careful about what I did in terms of lifting things/exercise etc. This time, I was smart about it. I knew that I was training for an athletic event of bringing a human into the world, and my body needed to be prepared. I walked throughout my pregnancy, took a prenatal pilates course, and did core stability exercises (Functional Progressions that I learned through BIRTHFIT) .

3) Chiropractic. I am a chiropractor. I am married to a chiropractor. You would think that I would have gotten adjusted throughout my pregnancy both times. During my first pregnancy, I had no pain or other symptoms, so I didn't prioritize getting adjusted. Unfortunately during labor with my first, we learned that Harper was asynclitic (head tilted) and occiput posterior (sunny side up). Both of these positions can make for a more painful and harder labor. This time around, I wanted to be sure that my sacrum and pelvis were in an ideal position so that baby could have the best shot at getting herself into an ideal position. I had the Webster Technique done on me throughout pregnancy this time by Dr. Lauren Keller at Elemental Chiropractic

4) Nutrition. I didn't change much here between my first and second pregnancy. I focused on eating mostly a real food, healthy, and nutrient dense diet throughout both pregnancies. I did add more super foods such as liver during my second pregnancy to be sure I was getting the nutrients my body needed. 

5) This was a second birth. Even though my first one didn't go exactly as I had planned, my body had done it before, and I'm sure that this helped. 

While we obviously didn't plan to have a baby in the front seat of our car, I would take this labor over my first any time. After it was all said and done, Jared joked that he was going to make me a t-shirt that said "Over meditated, under medicated". 

If you are curious about learning more about anything that I mentioned above (improving your mindset, appropriate fitness and core stability, chiropractic, or nutrition), I am a regional director for BIRTHFIT Chicago: Western Suburbs along with Dr. Lauren Keller. Dr. Lauren teaches courses out of locations in Addison and Oak Park and sees patients at her office in Addison. I teach out of Crossfit 630 in Naperville and see patients at my office in Warrenville. 

- Dr. Jamie

Webster Technique for a Safer and Easier Birth?

Dr. Jamie is certified in the Webster Technique.  webster for moms to be 1      

What is the Webster Technique?

It is a specific assessment and chiropractic adjustment to be used on pregnant women throughout pregnancy in preparation for a safer and easier birth. While it was created with the pregnant patient in mind, this technique is meant to balance the bony and ligamentous structures of the pelvis and sacrum, and thus can be used on anyone with a spine and pelvis!

When should pregnant patients start receiving regular Webster assessments and adjustments?

This can be done as soon as pregnancy starts, or even during the preconception period!

Why is having this assessment and adjustment important?

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